Michael
I
really enjoyed reading your blog post this week. I also thought the concept of
taking “no” less personally was quite meaningful. It’s amazing just how
powerful this word can be.
What I think what stood out the most to me
was the statement you made “It’s always good, in my opinion, to look beyond the obvious and
see the things that connect us all, listening beyond what is said and hearing
what is meant, and, digging even deeper, considering what lead up to this
meaning.” This is truly a powerful statement. We definitely need and want to
feel that human connection and we do this by seeking out people to do just that.
I couldn’t agree more that this type of connection is now more difficult to do.
Michael's Original Blog Post
WK4 Reading: Shades of Grade
Michael's Original Blog Post
I have never heard enrollment described in the way that the Zanders do in The Art of Possibility. When people enroll in something, I imagine they seldom believe themselves to be generating any kind of spark, and certainly not concerned with sharing it if they do. The concept of taking “no” less personally really resonated with me, as I know from personal experience that that simple two-letter world can completely destroy all semblance of possibility for the party on the receiving end of it.
Being the board is a radical thought, one that requires a complete paradigm shift in an individual's thinking. The emphasis on relationship building is certainly one that I think is extremely important but also becomes increasingly difficult as our society continues to "advance" and move away from the interpersonal relationships that define us as human and not machine. Advancements in technology always seem to be geared towards doing something faster, when, as the Zanders state, there are some things that just take more time, like building deep, meaningful relationships. It’s always good, in my opinion, to look beyond the obvious and see the things that connect us all, listening beyond what is said and hearing what is meant, and, digging even deeper, considering what lead up to this meaning.
I believe the greatest challenge of employing the thoughts, mindsets and strategies contained in The Art of Possibilityderives from the persistence in society of a black and white perception and outlook for everything. The problem with this thinking, in most cases, is that it is too absolute; there is no middle ground. It’s easier and more convenient to discern between what’s white and what’s black, but the reality is, or perhaps, the strongest possibility, is that every situation is best perceived as some shade of gray.